During difficult periods in my life where I’ve felt that I was just not doing enough for myself, my family, my clients, etc…I would often go seek the advice of my Nana (grandmother). She would sit and listen without judgment while I poured over any number of struggles. Many times, I would share frustration at not being able to help my clients in a more comprehensive way. When working with homeless young adults, I would regularly feel my efforts were simply not enough to make the changes I knew they needed. Many times, I could not help these individuals beat their addiction, get reunited with their families, or find a stable home. One day, after explaining this feeling of inadequacy, my grandmother shared a qoute which has stayed with me since:

“It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness”. 

This quote has served as a personal mantra, specifically in my work, ever since. For me, it is important to recognize the little things I can influence (teaching subtle but helpful interventions). To do what you can and not get caught in what you cant. Lastly, we never know what impact our role can have on someone else’s life. It may come immediately (decision to go to rehab) or it may come years later.

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